CNN* Please stop making the video unavailable! How are my readers supposed to watch this video if you keep removing it?
First I was taken aback. The sheer sight of these little kids ( because I have a little girl going into Kindergarten next year) playing with these anatomically correct dolls filled me with conflict. On one side, I do not believe in bull shitting my kids but I think there is a time and place for everything. I think children become curious at different points and are also all ready at different times to know the facts. From the beginning, my girls have known the anatomically correct names of their genitalia and they know that boys have a penis ( "peanut" as Gabs likes to refer to it as).Bella once asked me how we got her sister out of my belly. I was stumped. I fumbled, but I couldn't lie because I don't want to do that with my girls. So, I nonchalantly said she came out of me. Bella: How? ( I'm pretty sure she was going to look for a door or something) Me: She came out through my vagina. Bella: Oh! OK. ( I'm sure she didn't completely understand the logistics of it all but she had an answer and that's all she wanted.) She never asked again and she commenced with playing dress up with her baby dolls. I'm sure that's not how some people would handle it but it was the best I could do. I wasn't prepared. She was 3. I talk to my girls about not letting people touch them in their private places, or really anywhere. People need their private space, no one should be in that space unless invited in. But when I saw this video, though I am straight forward with my kids do I want a teacher handing out dolls with pubic hair and anatomically correct genitalia? I mean, did you see the little girl pushing the baby back up into the dolls uterus? Of course that could have been a useful tool with my conversation with Bella a couple years back. Then you think, well, this is on the other side of he world maybe they need it over there. No danger of my girls meeting the anatomically correct twins anytime soon.
Then I came across this....
Ahh, remember the good old days when you hit 5th grade someone slipped you a pamphlet , scared you shitless with a movie, and gave you a little baggie with some "PADS" in it to take home? Of course, that was as far as it went..my parents didn't tell me bupkis other than if I did "IT" ( whatever the hell that meant), I'd be shipped off to live with my mean Grandma in Mexico...that is, once they were done beating my ass. Yeah, never really saw the draw in that plus I surely didn't want to end up living with my mean Grandma in a third world country! The consequences far outweighed the benefits. I guess gone are the days when you could take your kid to the gynecologist and make them believe that every time they had sex they would have to have a pap? True story...I know a woman who did that to her daughter. Sounds cruel...but it would've worked on me!Well, I should be in no danger of Bella getting "the dolls" next year, she's going to Catholic school. I think the closest they get to sex ed is the issuance of the chastity belts at orientation!Basically, I am still torn on the subject....even after talking it out with all of you.What are your thoughts?
Oh Craptastic! I just realized Gabs is 3 now. Hey, wonder where I can get my hands on one of those dolls!